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How does one succeed in life?

11.06.2025 02:54

How does one succeed in life?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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That's it for today.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Ask yourself:

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What is a good habit and what is bad one?

Does not procrastinate.

What I need from you?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Hangs out with loser friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Losing 20kg is a goal.